Being a good fellow human is hard. It takes engagement, experience, and at times humility. Some people are lazy and accept the quick sell to bypass simple living and fellowship with others and are content to live their lifetimes out by black and white thinking and letting any meaningful decisions be handed over to others. It isnt just religions that do this. It is just the lazy way out of growing up and taking responsibility.
Failure to educate oneself is not exclusive to religion, but is deplorable and confusing coming from anyone. The common thread is ignorance and the groups that find it valuable. It leaves us befuddled to relate to because it is ignorant. Rejoice in the fact that You are not. The truth doesnt hurt anyone, If someone said that to Me, I would simply reply, "that is an ignorant statement". Rather than let it be on My shoulders, I would not take it on to start with I would put it right back where it came from (parent or no parent).
I am glad such drivel hurts Your conscience, You are the better person.